It takes real elegance to step into the highest tier of the society. Those who own the turf are inherently cruel to the point that they have made everyone else loves them—including you. You cannot escape them. They don’t want anyone else in but you cannot escape them. They would just keep on bugging you to be envious of what they have, in the most negative sense, and to strive hard to be accepted, in the most relatively positive sense.

It can be any gesture of your willingness to join their ranks. You need not surprise them with lavishness that rivals only theirs. A simple cufflinks and studs set can show them how desperate you are. They would love to see every bit of that and if you think that can make them let you in, you are completely mistaken.

No one gets in. No one does unless you are born to be rightfully there. You have to be, just like them, inherently cruel, literally speaking. Not even wearing a Classic Tuxedo Set would allow you to even touch the inner side of the gates of their paradise, of what you are brainwashed to consider heaven.

Wearing the perfect silver cufflinks based on your standards is not enough. It is all about them. Try as you may, but you’ll just keep on trying until you die. They would never let you in. All you can do is enjoy every moment of the trial. Live with it and learn to make it a part of you. Venture into the illusion that one day, maybe, you can have the guts to finally destroy the latch that keep them safe and wealthy and us, hoping thus for ourselves.